Two at once
Milestones, logistics, and the particular arithmetic of raising twins — including why comparing them to each other will make you miserable.
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The Daily Mental Load of Raising Twins as a Dad
With twins it's not just double the tasks — it's two separate sets of everything to track, compare, and remember, running in your head at the same time.
Raising Twins as a Dad: Two of Them, All at Once
Twins aren't one baby times two. They're a different sport entirely. The honest reality of raising two at once — the triage, the math, and what actually
Twin Milestones: When One Twin Is Ahead of the Other
Twin milestones don't follow a single timeline. A twin dad's honest guide to tracking development without falling into the comparison trap.
Parenting Twins: Lessons in Patience and Persistence
Practical and honest parenting twins tips for dads, from routines and patience to surviving the daily chaos of raising two kids at once.
The Story Behind The Twin Diaries: Stella and Mia Meet Papa
Why I wrote a children's book about surrogacy for my twin daughters — and why representation in children's literature matters more than I realised.
What It's Really Like Being a Gay Dad of Twins
The real, unfiltered truth about being a gay dad of twins. The joy, the chaos, the questions, and what nobody prepares you for.
Twins
On having twins — what the word means before you have them, and what it means after. A gay dad's honest reflection.
Exiting with the Twins: Getting My Daughters Home to Canada
What happens after your babies are born via surrogacy in Kenya? Joseph Tito walks through the passport, DNA, and citizenship process for getting his twins
Having Twins: The Surrogacy Journey Birth Story
The birth of Joseph Tito's twin daughters via surrogacy in Kenya — the hospital, the first moments, and what it felt like to finally become a dad.
Preparing for the Twins
The final weeks before Joseph Tito's twin daughters arrived via surrogacy — the preparation, the anxiety, and the strange calm before everything changed.