Books by Joseph Tito
Stories that go deeper than what you see online.
The Dad Diaries: Because Real Risks Are Worth Taking
The memoir that started it all. A raw, honest account of becoming a gay dad through surrogacy.
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The Dad Diaries: Because Real Risks Are Worth Taking
The Dad Diaries is a raw and heartfelt collection of stories from Joseph Tito's journey into fatherhood — navigating love, identity, and the beautiful chaos of raising children while staying true to yourself.
What Readers Are Saying
“I read this in one sitting. Cried three times. Laughed out loud once. Texted my husband 'read this immediately.'”
Sarah M.
Mom of 2 · Toronto · on The Dad Diaries
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Why Joseph Tito Matters
Joseph Tito is a gay dad of twin girls, born via surrogacy in Kenya after five embryo transfers and three years of trying. His story has been featured in Newsweek, LGBTQ Nation, CTV, Authority Magazine, and more.
With 200K+ followers and 300M+ video views, Joseph is one of the leading voices in modern fatherhood and LGBTQ parenting — not because he has the answers, but because he tells the truth.
His writing sits at the intersection of queer fatherhood, surrogacy, and unfiltered storytelling. If it feels fake, it doesn't make the page.
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